The Attitude of a Fighter Pilot and Real Estate Negotiating
Have you ever heard the phrase “the attitude of a fighter pilot?” This is a term used to describe the bravado and confidence of fighter pilots. For example, a squadron plaque reads, “When you pass that MiG driver canopy to canopy, maneuver your aircraft in such a manner as to leave no doubt in your opponent’s mind that after you’ve gunned his brains out, you will steal his wallet, burn down his house, take his wife and shoot his dog.” That is quite a statement! But how can this attitude relate to real estate negotiations?
The most successful negotiations occur when all parties understand what the other wants from the deal. When you enter into a negotiation with that fighter pilot attitude, it shows that you are serious about getting what you want from the deal. You don’t want to give away too much information about your interests or goals, but rather let the other party know that you are well-prepared and ready for whatever comes your way.
The Attitude of a Fighter Pilot

Additionally, having an aggressive mindset can be beneficial during real estate negotiations by helping you stay focused on the goal at hand. This type of attitude helps remind us that we need to remain firm and confident in our positions while not being afraid to stand up for ourselves if necessary. As Robin Olds (the fighter pilot’s fighter pilot) said, “If I had been scared, I wouldn’t have been a good fighter pilot.” It is important to approach any negotiation with the same level of confidence and courage as he did when he was flying.
Real estate negotiating is often a daunting task with lots of moving parts. It is important to remember that these types of negotiations require patience and preparation in order to have a successful outcome. Having an aggressive fighter pilot attitude can help keep us focused on our goals and ensure that we get what we want from any agreement we make with another party.
Understanding how tactics from fighter pilots apply to real estate negotiations is essential for anyone hoping for success during such dealings. In order for any negotiation process to go smoothly, it is necessary for both parties involved to be confident in their positions and willing to stand up for themselves if necessary. Having an aggressive yet composed mindset like those exhibited by those with the attitude of a fighter pilot can help ensure success during any real estate negotiation process!
Luxury Specialist at McGraw Realtors
Bill Wilson has helped buyers and sellers throughout the Oklahoma City metro since 1995. Before entering real estate, he served as a U.S. Air Force fighter pilot and owned an office equipment business, experiences that shaped his disciplined, practical approach to advising clients. Bill works alongside his daughter, Heather Wall, as OKCHomeSellers at McGraw Realtors. Together, they specialize in luxury, move-up and distinctive properties throughout Oklahoma City, Edmond and surrounding communities. With more than 30 years of real estate experience, Bill has guided clients through changing markets, complex transactions and important life transitions. His approach is built on candid advice, thoughtful marketing and relationships that continue long after closing.