On this Mother’s Day, we reflect on the saying that “a mother’s love is unconditional” and the mothers’ immeasurable impact on our lives. As we remember and celebrate the amazing women who have shaped us, we are reminded of the countless ways in which they have shown us, love, from cuddling and comforting us when we’re in pain to pushing us out of our comfort zones to pursue our dreams.

As I reflect on how my mom has impacted me throughout my life—from childhood moments up until the present day (even though I lost her many years ago) —I’m filled with admiration and appreciation beyond words. So join me as I reminisce down memory lane and share stories of how mine (and your!) amazing moms made an immeasurable impact in their children’s lives!

Special Memories of My Mother on Mother’s Day

Reflecting on special memories of my mother always brings a smile to my face. My mom was an older mother, almost 40 years old, when I was born. She was raised in a small town in Oklahoma called Hydro. She went on to attend the University of Oklahoma, where she earned an education degree. But she didn’t stop there.

She continued her education at the University of Southern California, obtaining a master’s degree in Speech and Drama. After teaching during the depression years in small, western Oklahoma towns, she eventually ended up in Goose Creek, Texas, where her sister lived. But before settling into married life in 1946, she worked at Cities Service in Oklahoma City during World War II and the post-war era.

My dad and mom were quite the pair – he was rough around the edges, while she was sophisticated and proper. I’ll never forget her tone of voice and how she always commanded respect.

The Values She Instilled In Me

My mom was one of a kind. She taught me many important values that guide my daily decisions and actions.

• Respect: Teaching a son to treat others with kindness, empathy, and consideration, regardless of their background or beliefs.
• Responsibility: Encouraging a son to take ownership of his actions and be accountable for his choices and their consequences.
• Integrity: Instilling a solid moral compass and the importance of honesty, trustworthiness, and doing the right thing even when difficult.
• Self-discipline: Teaching a son the importance of setting goals, persevering, and delaying gratification to achieve long-term success.
• Compassion: Nurturing a sense of empathy and care for others and promoting a willingness to help and support those in need.
• Work ethic: Instilling the importance of hard work, dedication, and commitment in pursuing personal and professional goals. (Dad played an important role here too, but more on that next month)
• Gratitude: Teaching a son to appreciate the good things in life and to express thankfulness for the people and opportunities he has.

These are the cornerstones of my character, and I owe it all to her. Whenever I face a tough choice, I ask myself, “What would Mom do?” She was the kind of person who always did the right thing, even when it wasn’t easy. And that’s something I strive for in my own life. I may not be perfect, but I know I’m on the right path as long as I honor her memory and the lessons she taught me.

Today’s celebrations, revisiting the places we used to go together

As we gather to celebrate this special occasion today, I can’t help but think back to the simple and sweet times we used to spend together. Remember when we would all go to church every Sunday morning? Mom would proudly wear her red rose, signifying that her mother was still with us, while Dad would don a white rose. Does anyone recall that tradition?

After church, back in the ’50s, we would go to the Lady Classen Cafeteria for dinner or, if we were feeling fancy, Bishop’s downtown. And in the ’60s, the Sportsman’s Club became our go-to spot. Sadly, these iconic dining destinations are no longer with us, and I can’t help but feel nostalgic for those cherished memories. It’s a shame we can’t experience those flavors and moments again, but at least we can look back on those fond memories with a smile.

Carrying On Her Legacy

Growing up, my mother was always a shining example of living life with passion and purpose. She dedicated herself to helping others, whether it was through volunteering at local shelters or simply being a listening ear for anyone who needed it. She taught me the value of kindness, compassion, and hard work, and I am committed to carrying on her legacy. As I look ahead to the future, I am eager to pass on these lessons to my grandchildren and ensure that her values live on for generations. It won’t always be easy, but keeping her spirit alive is worth it.

In honoring my mom’s memory, I am thankful for the special moments and valuable advice she gave that I will always carry with me. Today, I remember her selfless love, kindness, and strength. As I celebrate this special day in her honor, I can take comfort in knowing that her legacy will live on.

From this day forward, I also commit to nurturing my relationship with my family, ensuring that my mother’s spirit remains alive in our hearts. In paying tribute to my mom and all mothers out there today, let us cherish the memories we shared together and continue spiriting those values into the future generations of our families. What are the memories of your mom? Today, reflect on hers and thank them for their unconditional love and dedication.